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JUNE 24th 1990


Dean Graham Henderson, born in Dryburn hospital, Durham,United Kingdom on June 24, 1990 at 12.06. Weighing 7lb 13oz Dean was a breech baby, with beautiful blue eyes and light brown hair, an absolute treasure. The nurses thought he was a girl when he was wrapped up in his cot, they said he was too gorgeous to be a boy! Ah!
 
28th Oct 1990


Dean was baptised at St Cuthberts Church, Gateshead by Revd Stephen T Robson.
Here he is with his Godmother, Joanne.
 
10th Feb 1991


Dean cut his first tooth at the age of 7 mths. He went on to cut the rest very quickly & soon realised how yummy his mams chocolate cake tastes!!
 
 
 
12th Aug 1991


Dean took his first steps on this day.


 
7th Sept 1994


Dean started Fellside Primary School, Whickham.  He stayed there right up until the end of Yr 6 & he made many good friends there. He always enjoyed school.
 
Sometime in Fellside Primary School
A poem wote by Dean & Elaine : Friends

Dean & Elaine were very close friends in Primary School.
 
Friends cont

Dean & Elaines poem cont

 

 
20th April 1998


Marvin, Deans dog was born.
 
3rd MARCH 2001



Dean helped present the show...DiGGiT!
Dean & his Mam got to go down to London & stopped in a hotel on the Saturday night then Dean helped present the show on the Sunday morning. Dean sat in a telephone pod & answered calls from viewers. He also went to the wax museum & Buckingham Palace. Dean had a fantastic wk end.     
                                                      

 
September 2001


Dean started Whickham Comprehensive School. Here he made more great friends. He would walk to school with David & Lisa. I would collect him afterwards & Lara would always be walking with him. 

       

 
08 Oct 2003
Dean becomes an Uncle.... Joshua Lee Dixon is born!!!!



Dean was ever so proud to be an Uncle. He absolutely loved Josh and I know he will still be watching over him forever. 

                                                 
 
Sometime in 2004

An article Dean done at school on himself.

 

 
9th June 2004


Dean gave his mam away at her wedding and was so proud. We all had a very wonderful, memorable day & I am so pleased to of been able to have that with my son, Dean.

 
WEDNESDAY AUGUST 3RD 2005


Passed away on August 03, 2005 at the young age of 15. We all love and miss you so much and we have been honoured to have you in our lives Dean. We wish you could of been with us for many more years although we know you are with us always. You have made so many people so happy and proud. Sweet dreams son, i'm with you always and will never leave you as I also know that you will never leave me. All my love & xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx eternally, Mam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 
                                              


The saddest day of my life. My one & only most gorgeous Son I wish so much we could turn back the clock. Keep smiling my precious Son. We will try so hard to keep smiling with you.
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August 10th 2005


We held Deans funeral at the Chapel in Saltwell Park, Gateshead. Dean joins his Great Grandad, Great Nana & cousin Simon.
It was absolutely full of family & friends. The service was beautiful. We played 2 of Deans favourite songs, I'll be There for you and Rhythm of the Night. Ive never seen so many flowers in my life and they are most appreciated.
Afterwards we went to The Chopwell Hotel in Chopwell where a disco was held to celebrate Deans life as that is what he wished for. We had balloons, music, buffet and a chocolate fountain which of course we all know how Dean loved chocolate!
It was a memorable day, extremely sad but in a strange way lovely too( Im sure all those who attended will understand what I mean by that ).
Dean is still very much loved, talked about and in the front of our minds at all times. WE love you with all our hearts forever and ever. Sweet dreams son, group hug xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


                                                      
 
19th December 2005


Today Deans school friends had a memorial service where a plaque was unveiled. 1 friend played the violin and another sang the song, "Hero" which was wonderful and of course Dean is a hero to us all and such a special person. Some more friends spoke about fond memories they have of Dean and a large book was given to his family which is full of peoples memories, tributes and poems etc. It is great. Dean made such a fantastic impact on everyone who met him and this is obvious when you read all the messages etc in the book. We then went and had coffee and his friends had cooked sweet mince pies and choc shortbread. Music was played which again had been compiled by his friends.The cookery class have also had a collection and bought a Trophy which is called "Dean Henderson Memorial Trophy" and is to be awarded to a student each year and their name will be engraved on the trophy. The whole service from beginning to end was lovely and so much thought and effort had been put into it by his school friends. I know how much Dean is missed not just by his family but all his friends. We will never ever forget Dean and will love him eternally. One day we will be together in a nicer world where Dean is now and he can now be free from his heart condition and live it up big style then show us all around when its our turn to join him.


                                               
 
CHRISTMAS 2005




We made sure Dean joined in with the festivities with a xmas tree and xmas ornaments. Christmas will never be the same for us but we will always include Dean every year and send our love forever. We love & miss Dean more than words could ever express.

MERRY CHRISTMAS DEAN

 
JANUARY 1st 2006



HAPPY NEW YEAR DEAN

We move into a New Year and know Dean is moving with us and he will still be constantly in our hearts and thoughts, loved and missed ever so much. xxxxx



 
Febrary 14th 2006
             

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY DEAN .....

     

Thinking of you, missing you & loving you ever so much Dean. We are always with you as you are with us too. We have got loads of hugging & kissing to catch up on when I join you for eternity as well as all the chatting!xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx love you son, your proud Mam.



 
April 3rd 2006

                                      
Today Deans Great grandma, Joyce passed over & joined Dean in their beautiful peaceful world.  I know they will be so happy to be with each other and all the other family members that are with them will be holding a huge party. We all love & miss them so much &  know we will one day be joining in on their partying.Until then we can be rest assured that they are safe, happy & being taken care of by the best. All our love xxxxx In this photo is Dean with his Great Grandma & Josh, his nephew.     

 
April 7th 2006


Deans Great Grandma was today cremated at Newcastle Upon Tyne. We then went back to her home & caught up with the family chit chat. I know Dean will be showing his Great Grandma all his new friends that he has made as well as catching up with old friends & family. Plenty of partying then eh Dean! cos Great Grandma loved parties & dancing too. 
We all miss you both so so much but no that you are both safe & have plenty of company. You will also be watching out for all of us still here so we will be keeping you busy Im sure. We love you & you are always in our hearts & thoughts & I mean ALWAYS. All our love, hugs & xxxxx
All God's Children Prints by Dona GelsingerGod bless you both xxxxxxxxxx

 
April 27th 2006

     Deans  gorgeous niece, Layla Jayne is born weighing 7lb. She has quite a lot of very dark hair & the same birthmark on the back of her neck as Dean. I know Dean will be celebrating with his family in their beautiful world & will be taking care of Layla as well as his nephew Josh. He will definately have a huge grin from ear to ear, his face will be beaming with joy. We all love & miss you so so much Dean. Stay Smiling for us & we will all be by your side in no time at all. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx      -- Click for more Information to popup




CONGRATULATIONS TO DEANS SIS, NICHOLA & PARTNER STEVE ON THE BIRTH OF THEIR 1st BABY, LAYLA JAYNE, on 27/04/06 weighing 7lb 



Dean we know you will be forever loving & watching over your niece Layla so closely along with your nephew Josh. Bet youre so chuffed. We are all thinking about you Dean & miss you eternally. All our love, hugs & xxx your loving Family. 





 
24th June 2006

                        homer     




           

 



16 YEARS OF AGE







     

  






Happy 16th Birthday Dean son. Today we brought you a Homer made with flowers & I hope you like it. Me, David,Grandma, Nichola, Natalia, Naomi, Josh, Layla & Aunty Kristine all came to the cemetery & lit candles, Josh blew them out. We brought you lovely flowers & balloons. When we got home we put a "16" candle on the cake which was made for you at the prom & Josh blew the candles out(with a little help fom me!) & we all had a slice of cake. Then we all went outside and let 16 balloons go up in the air &  a huge red heart balloon for you. We all miss you tremendously & wish so hard that we were celebrating your 16th birthday at home with you & the sound of your laughter & huge smiles. We know that you were with us in your own special way & know that nana,granda,grandma & all rest of our family that are with you in your beautiful new home will be celebrating big style & you will have great fun with them all. Stay close to us son & keep watching out for me as I will be joining you one day when my time comes & I will need the biggest hug off you ever ok. I love you ever so much & remember that Im always here for you, your proud Mam. All my love, hugs & xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Group Hug












Happy 16th Birthday Dean son...

To have the kind of son every parent wishes for,
Is something very PRECIOUS & no one could ask for more...
Youre just so kind & thoughtful in everything you do,
Youre always fun to be around & your love of life shines through...
You are CHERISHED & adored far more than words can say,
And so this greetings filled with love because its your special day.
With all our love on your 16th Birthday Dean Son, Mam & David
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NEPHEW -

Youve won the hearts of many with your loving, caring touch,
And so your friends & family all love you very much,
I really want to tell you youre a cut above the rest,
A very special NEPHEW who deserves the very best,
Without any words of flattery,
Those who know you have always found,
Life has an extra sparkle
whenever youre around,
Thats why the warmest wishes are already on their way,
And each & everyone is meant
for you on your special day,
So have a wonderful 16th birthday,
Love you loads, Auntie Kristine.
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3rd August 2006



 

Dean we decided to have a Scooby Doo made in flowers for your 1st yr in Heaven. Youve always loved Scooby so Im sur you will of thought this was great. We let off a balloon & I made your fav choc cake & cookies which we had in your memory & to celebrate the wonderful 15 yrs you gave us. We love you eternally, you are always in our hearts & our conversations. Huge group hug xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

One Year

Remembering our son Dean
Remembering the fun
Remembering the laughs
Remembering the kindness
Remembering your bravery
Remembering your love
Remembering your beautiful smile,
your gorgeous face
AND
We will NEVER forget you
You are in our hearts
Always by our side
We miss and love you every day
Huge group hug
Sweet dreams son
One year has passed & we are one year closer
to being with you.
All our love, hugs & kisses
Mam & David
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One Year 

A year ago we lost you,
Why did you have to go?
‘Why?’ is always on my lips,
And yet I still don’t know.

You were a special person,
Loving, caring, true.
But God wanted you beside Him,
He must have needed you.

You’re in my mind each moment,
Morning, and night.
To have you back beside me,
I pray with all my might.

I want to hold you in my arms,
Just like I used to do,
But more than that, much more than that,
I need a hug from you.

I want to feel you hold me,
Feel your hair upon my face,
I want to smell your aroma,
To feel my heartbeat race….

As you walk in through the back door,
Throw your keys upon the side,
And shout, ‘Hello, it’s only me’,
With your arms out open wide.

But that will never happen,
In this world, anyway,
But we will hug each other,
Somehow, somewhere, some day.

And so, until that moment,
There is one thing you can do,
To make our lives more bearable,
In this world without you.

At night when we are lying
In bed, dreaming dreams of you,
Climb in and lie between us,
Hug me and your Step Dad too.
All our love, hugs & xxxxx
Mam & David 










We love & miss you ever so much Dean son. Our lives are so empty without you here with us. We miss the laughter & the fun we always had. The house is so quiet and I miss the sound of your voice always chattering on. We still had so many plans & so much to show you in this world & we just cannot understand why you had to leave this world at the young age of 15. You too had so much you wanted to do & you were always so HAPPY & CHEERFUL. I know you would of achieved great GCSE results as you were working so hard towards them. I wish I could work miracles and bring you here with us but I know that is not possible. I have to wait until its my time to leave this world & join you in yours. That is a moment I am looking forward to but dont worry Dean I am trying so hard to be a strong person like you & I am trying to do lots in my life that I know you would of liked to of done too. I am so proud of you & I hope I can make you proud of me.
We are 1 year nearer to being together now son, so keep smiling & keep helping me to keep smiling. I love you millions & miss you desperately.
All my love, hugs & xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx  Mam

Dean we think about you always & love you so much. Today Im trying to be as brave as you. I hope you like your Scooby flowers!!Ive made your favourite choc cake & some cookies. Nik, Layla & Josh are here so when we get home we are goin to have some cake & celebrate your wonderful life, remembering all the brilliant times we shared, the laughter, smiles & love. No doubt ul be partyin in heaven cos its ur birthday in Heaven aint it. Nana, Granda, Granma & everyone will make sure you have great fun, Im sure of that.
I wrote this poem just for you Son, I love you with all my heart & soul & miss you so desperately xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


MY  WORLD


You are my world, my life, my courageous Son,
Its been 1 year now since my nightmare begun,
I wanted to leave everything, everyone and run,
But where would I go, what would I do?
No matter how far I ran it wouldn’t get me to you!


But of course you’ll always be so close and near,
I realise that now, my minds becoming more clear,
We will always be together Dean, have no fear, 
Our love and memories we share help make me strong,
And I know we will be reunited before too long.

My heart will always ache until you reach out your hand,
Then it will stop and I will at last understand,
We will make new memories together and travel the land,
Remember, Im always here son, your proud mam forever,
We always have each other, I will leave you never.

So keep smiling my special loving son,
The hearts and love of us all you won,
With your caring ways, laughter and fun,
I miss and love you ever so much Dean,
My adorable, sensitive, one in a million teen.




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6th October 2006
 

Today Deans memorial stone was placed at the cemetery. Dean shares his stone with his cousin Simon who he never actually met in this world. I am certain that Dean & Simon will have met in their New world & will have plenty to chat about.
I am extremely pleased with the stone, it is exactly how I imagined it & I know that Scotts Memorials worked really hard with the inscribing of the words as I had set them a bit of a challange with all the wording on the stone. However they managed to get it all perfect, so many thanks to them.
Now everyone who visits will be able to view the stone and the lovely photos on it.
We love Dean so so much and miss him immensely.
Keep smiling Dean son, all my everlasting love,hugs & xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 
December 25th 2006



Merry Christmas Dean my precious son. As we spend our 2nd xmas with you in your new world we are trying so hard to celebrate it here with our family. I know you will be with our family in Heaven & having a great time, I know cos I spent many a fantastic xmas with nana,grandad & grandma so they will be making it extra special for you son. Give them all lots of hugs & kisses off me & Dean, you keep smiling & laughing just as you always did here with us. You gave us so much love & enjoyment, xmas day was all about you in our house cos you created such a wonderful atmosphere.
I hope you like ur xmas decorations both at home & at the cemetery, I know you like everywhere to look festive.
We are all thinking about you so much & sending you all out love & kisses.
Sweet dreams me little darlin, stay close to us & it wont seem like 2 mins til we are all together again, forever more.
I love you forever and ever, Your proud Mam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Dean you Always made Christmas extra special with your love, excitement and laughter.

~To my fantastic SON at Christmas time~

Son youre special in so many ways
And now that christmas is here
Id like to tell you again how much you are loved
Each and every day of the year

For your warmth and your laughter
Your kindness and love
The things so thoughtful you do
Make it so very easy to love and be proud
Of a son as special as you

You always found pleasure in all that you do
Youve a smile so genuine too
And at christmas dear Son we send love from our heart
And please know we are always with you.


We loved to watch Dean open his pressies & watch the enjoyment on his face. 





 
January 1st 2007



HAPPY NEW YEAR DEAN
AND TO ALL OF YOUR loved ones,friends & visitors. 

Happy New Year Dean son. I hope you will continue to laugh & smile all throughout 2007. We move into a New Year & know that we are another whole year nearer to being  with you once again. We do not know ourselves when that time will be but in the meantime Dean we continue to think of you, talk about you, care for you & love you ever so dearly. Enjoy your  new world & the freedom you now have free from your heart condition which restricted you from joining in on some of the fun things your friends could enjoy, like riding a rollercoaster, playing football or any sport. I bet youve done all those things & much more by now.
I love you with all my heart Dean, keep visiting me in my dreams, they mean so much Son, all my everlasting love, hugs & xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx your devoted Mam


 
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY DEAN 14/02/2007

















Think you will like this pic Dean, with all my love, Mam xxxxx 

Have a fantastic Valentines Day in heaven Dean son. I know you will  plenty of admirers giving you loads of attention!! Enjoy it all. 

We all love you & miss you so desperately. 
Keep smiling handsome, all my love, hugs & xxxxx Your loving Mam.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 
JUNE 24th 2007









Have a fantastic 17th Birthday Son in your wonderful world. We love you ever so much & will be celebrating with you,
All our love forever, Mam & David.
~xxxxxx~ 






    












       









Many thanks to Sarah Porter who made this for Dean





 

                                  

 
9th July 2007

                           

Congratulations to Naomi (Deans sis) & Lee on the birth of Lewis Dean, A gorgeous brother for Joshua Lee.
Lewis Dean arrived on 9th July weighing 7lb 4 1/2 oz.

Dean you have got your hands full now watching over your nephews & niece but I know that you will do it with enormous pride, always smiling & sending so much love to them all. They will all grow up knowing what a caring, loving Uncle they
have.

                                   

Josh always talks about you Dean & kisses the photo of you holding him. He will continue to talk about you to his cousin, Layla & new brother, Lewis. You are alive in all our hearts & minds.



 
August 3rd 2007




Dean its 2 yrs now since you arrived in your new beautiful world. I cannot put into words how much we all love & miss you so much here Son. We are trying ever so hard to try to understand why this happened to us. One thing I do know is that you are still with us in your special way & boy are you working hard to make our lives run a bit more smoothly ( And you know what Im talking about dont you Son).
I know you will love the sunflowers I brought down for you. You always liked to plant a sunflower seed and see how high it would grow.
We are having the usual choc cake & cookies then tonight we are going to have a chinese to celebrate your wonderful life & the fantastic memories we were lucky enough to be able to share with you. As Nik says we are going to have a "Dean Day".
As always, keep smiling Son & thankyou for being such a special Son & still continuing to make us all happy by helping us out in the way you can now.

I love you so much eternally Dean my truly amazing Son.

Loadsa love, huge group hug & lotsa xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 
25th December 2007


~A Very Special Merry Christmas Dean~

Youve been a precious Son
right from the very start
You grew to be so special
With a kind & loving heart
 



That lovely sense of joy you had
within you as a child
Will always be so much a part of your
delightful, charming style



Thoughts of you at christmas
are amongst the best of all
the memories are wonderful
and so very special to recall
 



We wish you a wonderful christmas Son with all your Angel family & friends.
With all our love, hugs & loadsa kisses,
Mam & David
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx



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Christmas wishes to my Grandson

Youve always made our family such a happy one...
...Thats why this comes with love for everything youve done.

Happy Xmas Dean, lots & lots of love kisses & cuddles from Grandma.
xxx ooo 



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MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL
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JANUARY 1st 2008



~ HAPPY NEW YEAR 2008 DEAN,and to all family, friends & visitors ~ 



~ My precious Son, Dean, we are 1 year
 closer to being re united ~
 



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Have a fabulous New Year Dean my No 1 Son. As we go forward into the year 2008 I know that you are moving with us and will always be just a footstep away. as we will also always be with you now & forever more. We will always be thinking of you, keeping you so close in our hearts & holding on dearly to all the precious memories we have of you & have made with you.
Keep smiling that wonderful gorgeous smile we all know & love.
Sweet dreams Son.
I love you deeply with all my heart .
All my love, your devoted Mam 

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February 14th 2008

 

Happy Valentines Day Dean
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And A Happy Valentines Day to all family, friends & visitors to Deans site.

I can imagine you are getting lots of attention Dean on Valentines day in your beautiful world.

Love you so much my handsome son

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24th June 2008 ~ Happy 18th Birthday Dean xxx

 

 Dean I cant buy you a drink for your 18th so I made you a bottle of Smirnoff Ice with flowers, (Aunty Eileen helped too)

Im sure you will love it & prob had a good laugh at us making it.

 

  Happy 18th Birthday Son, we are celebrating with you. We love you truly forever, enjoy your 18th xxx

Heres a bottle of champagne for your 1st legal drink Dean!


Happy 18th Birthday lots of love & licks from Marvin xxx


~Thankyou so much Sarah Porter (Mum to Laura) for making this cake & below the pic gallery, they are fabulous.~

~Also many thanks to Sarah (Mum to Joshua Blakeway) for these 2 beautiful pics.~






Happy 18th Birthday my handsome young man,

Go easy with the partyin in your world son, though I know there are plenty of angels to watch over you & party with you on your very special birthday.

We are celebrating with you Dean which of course you know. I know we cant get you a pres but your flowers off us all are gorgeous & your birthday party raised the grand final total  of £1000 which will be donated to CRY how good is that.

Im so proud of you, youre the best son ever for sure.

Keep smiling, I love you, Mam

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 
December 2008

Dean

Merry Christmas to


all...


& thankyou all so much for

lighting candles & leaving tributes, you

have helped us with your kind words.

...Saw this & knew you would like it

Dean, Merry Christmas Son xxx

...And this one, ha ha




 
January 2009

~ Happy New Year Dean ~

~ and wishing family,

friends, & visitors a Happy

New Year ~

Hope 2009 brings peace &

happiness to all.



 
February 14th 2009

 

~Happy Valentines Dean~

Sending you all our love today & every day

~Love you so much Son~

 
24th June 2009... Happy 19th Birthday Dean

~ 24th June 2009 ~






~ Happy 19th Birthday Dean ~




~ A very happy birthday from Marvin he misses you too xxx ~





Have a fab 19th Birthday Dean in your new world with all your family & new friends.

We miss you dearly Son & love you ever so much our hearts ache to be with you.

Keep smiling handsome we will be celebrating your birthday with you.

All our love massive group hug & loadsa kisses

From Mam & David

~ xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ~

 

 
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